For women, a change occurred in 1. However, the probable reason is that they keep their sexuality a secret for fear of government sanction or rejection by their families. Among the male subjects, however, the straight men were turned on only by erotic films with women, the gay ones by those with men. Women gave various reasons for preferring sexual relations with women to sexual relations with men, including finding women more sensitive to other people's needs. Some scholars argue that there are examples of homosexual love in ancient literature, like in the Mesopotamian Epic of Gilgamesh as well as in the Biblical story of David and Jonathan. Some are part of a blame game. Diamond concluded that "although sexual attractions appear fairly stable, sexual identities and behaviors are more fluid. What causes sexual orientation? Thus, sexual orientation is integrally linked to the intimate personal relationships that human beings form with others to meet their deeply felt needs for love, attachment, and intimacy. This shows that what people feel or do is not always the same as how they identify themselves. Homosexuality in ancient Greece , Homosexuality in ancient Rome , Timeline of LGBT history in Britain , and Homosexuality in Medieval Europe The earliest Western documents in the form of literary works, art objects, and mythographic materials concerning same-sex relationships are derived from ancient Greece. My close relationship with my domineering mother and my distant relationship with my passive father shaped my sexuality from an early age. Sexual identity is how you label yourself for example, using labels such as queer, gay, lesbian, straight, or bisexual. The narrators of many of her poems speak of infatuations and love sometimes requited, sometimes not for various females, but descriptions of physical acts between women are few and subject to debate. That one day I woke up and consciously chose to be attracted to some of the boys I was growing up with rather than some of the girls. The Bible clearly teaches that all human beings sin naturally.