Then run your hands up and down his penile shaft, with his cock poking out between your intertwined fingers and your thumbs, possibly adding to his pleasure with a series of twisting, side-to-side rotations when you get to his glans. However, it's important to remember that the lining of the rectum is thinner and more easily damaged than the lining of the vagina, so use a jelly-like soft vibrator. Though he may have some inhibitions about anal play, which is fair enough - it's not everyone's ball-game - if you can persuade him to experiment, he may find that it's something he wants to do more often. Anything that gets you in close proximity and ready to relax, without worrying about the pressures of day to day life can do wonders for your sex life. There's no room for restraint in giving to each other sexually, between two people who are in love, especially when this very intimate act can make him feel deeply loving towards you - not to mention extremely sexually satisfied! A small percentage of the public had begun to suspect something sinister was going on, and it looked like that magical season could forever be tarnished by a steroid scandal. One month later she was on the cover of Life Magazine, which was pretty much required reading in , with the headline "The Talk of Hollywood. All of the news outlets in New York, who were more than familiar with Paris, went apeshit over the video. And they also hint at bondage, while being perfectly safe and easy to remove. Irregularities like Mark McGwire going from looking like this: Tell him you won't tolerate selfish behavior during sex, and you want to have an orgasm! So - shed your inhibitions. This really is one of the worst sexual deceits there is not up there with having an affair, true, but pretty bad all the same. Of course, men can be guilty of this as well, so the real answer is for both partners to learn how to communicate openly and naturally.