I suggest finding a private spot on the beach at nighttime, with the lights of the Hotel Del dancing in the distance. Please feel free to comment on your favorite locations! Nonetheless, Black's Beach is a hidden gem. This iconic San Diego landmark adds an element of Hollywood romance to your sandy rendez-vous. She is also the writer and host of In the Den with Dr. For the sexually adventurous, this means opportunities for romantic outdoor sex. Jenn" Gunsaullus, PhD, is a sociologist with a passion for gently pushing people outside their sexual comfort zones. I think this setting is also better at nighttime, but be careful traversing the cliffs. San Diego is a warm city, with so many stunning outdoor locations. I hope this one surprises you, since we don't hear a lot about this location. Between the architecture and horticulture, Balboa Park is a buffet to the senses. There are some unique considerations for this area, including hand-gliders above, sketchy male voyeurs, and naked volleyball players which sounds way better than it looks. If you are there when it's crowded, as a courtesy to others, look for one of the more secluded wooded areas. Sunset Cliffs is a sensual wonderland, from the deep blue ocean, waves crashing against the cliffs, salty sea air, navigation of the rocks, to the surprise picnic you pack. While this is the name of a neighborhood in La Jolla, there is also an actual "bird rock" - a rock situated in the ocean just beyond the beach, where birds like to hang out. Jenn, a free online educational video series celebrating episodes!