After another half hour of agony, Alicia noticed him out of the corner of her eye and said in mock surprise, "Oh, you're still here, didn't I let you cum already!?! I did not have an orgasm until I was something, because I never truly tried to masturbate. Especially because Alanis, you came of age when it was so omnipresent on the internet. Can you tell them what their options are? I should have been figuring out my body when all the boys did, when I was 10 or 11 years old. She had me to be able to leave the situation she was in. The more you understand yourself and what makes you tick, you are more prepared to be able to have sex with somebody and know what to ask from them and what you need from them. What was your own level of sex education like? The first time you watched porn? Iin terms of us having a conversation about our sexuality, as in my sexuality, I was maybe 10 or 11? This interview has been condensed and edited for clarity. Was it while you were horseback riding at summer camp? With an inch or two of dildo sticking out of his ass, Alicia grabbed the little stub of rubber, and while berating her husband for messing up the bathroom, she began ramming the thick latex toy in and out of his poor asshole with hard vicious strokes until he was crying like a baby!!! I blame my mom for that, as we tend to do that as adults. I wish she had been more open and told me the reality of how normal sex is as a whole. Nancy put her hand on her mother's arm and whispered, "Are you getting close, mom, you seem a little bit tense!?! Go look for it.