Different and still amazing. In porn, however, the attraction to anal is different for me. One very astute elder person I met remarked that rimming is just like kissing someone on the lips, orifices that actually have similar amounts of dirt, which, of course, is off topic now. Men who are straight do not want to run the slightest risk of thinking they might be gay, even worse for our girlfriends, wives, friends, family members think we are. Imagine that you are a kid at school, and you get your school lunch every day. Is it different or the same? Anal is more about shaft stimulation than head stimulation so if makes for me at least and entirely different orgasm. I first showed my dildo fetish to a girlfriend who loved it. I have met a few women in my time that truly liked it and I think they liked it for the same reason. Plus, when a woman is into it, the feedback of the pleasure she gets as well is mind-blowing. I am very aggressive in bed normally choking, spitting, hitting, hair pulling, name calling, degrading, etc…. It requires more trust and communication than regular sex, and oftentimes your SO is sacrificing some of their comfort and possibly dignity to give you pleasure.