For once, the Aries man will have to accept that someone else just may be getting a bit more attention than he is. In the real world this scenario is unlikely at best, and at worst, can lead to an unbalanced or even abusive relationship in which her needs are ignored in favour of his dominating insistence on having his way. She knows her personal worth and commands respect because of her integrity. The Aries man is very affectionate and displays a lot of passion towards his Virgo woman. All earth element signs are sensuous in bed, and the fire element is hotly sexual, though Aries is not known for his subtlety or technique. Their conflicting needs and styles can cause friction between them, but if they allow each other the space to be their true selves, they can make a go of it. In a relationship they can temper each other's extremes. A Virgo woman might choose to serve her man in the name of love, but this cannot last, and is not healthy for her soul. A Virgo woman definitely brings out the best in the Aries man, a virtuous protector. You thought you were the only one? In exchange for his protection she gives him a beautifully organized life, taking care of all the details so he can focus on momentum and the Big Picture. A long-term relationship will go smoothly if Aries and Virgo focus on the good qualities of each other and not on their differences. This is because the Virgo woman does not want to take the lead in any of her relationships. The relationship can bring out the best in each other so long as the Virgo woman watches her tendency to criticize and the Aries man guards against being too selfish. When Aries is upset, there's a lot of shouting. The Aries man has the great adventure in mind. The other thing you have to do if you want the relationship to progress is to get behind his dream, goal or ambition.